He has changed a lot throughout this process, but I don't know what he will be like once we are finished. I used to be religious when I was a kid. Be with a nice guy and a doctor who will not put himself or his love for money first or his ego first. We always went every Sunday, had family prayer and scripture reading, etc. I found that it worked just as well. No where did I say, nor I think indicate, that I thought this wasn't a complex issue, or that this girl is a caricature. Cousin the same age who just got married has known her husband 6 months.
Our daughter is 6. Realize that your Dr spouse isn't intentionally wanting to make you feel lonely or depressed, and they most likely feel as isolated by their work as you do. The church can be a very cruel place for single people.
Of course it is impossible Anyways, I am sorry to go on and on. Many blessings to you. Pants-to-Church Sunday left me a bit bruised. If kids ever came into the picture though, I wouldn't want to be isolated from them psychologically or banned from walking my daughter down the aisle someday. Eventually I hope each wards get to a point where they know that as a ward family our job is simply to make sure that each person, member or non member knows that when they enter the house of the Lord, they are loved. I realize that the answers to many of these questions may be different for every family, and that we need to continue to discuss them more as a couple as we continue to think about our future. We talked about getting married early in our relationship since we had known each other forever. At 30, you just give up. As a parent, we hope our children will make life choices that will give them the greatest chance of happiness. Though, not everyone is looking for a free lunch out of a marriage.
I never thought fellowship would be worse than residency and boy was I wrong. A lot of what you say about Support was what I expected to find in residency. Now he is into his second year, the schedule has improved some and so has his libido: I am married to an intern this is his first year residency, unfortunatley he didn't match so this is only a pre-lim year and now I know in my thoughts we may have to move again, so I get upset when I think why even try and get attached to the community, neighbors, new friends As humans we really need people in our lives especially in a time like this, although we might have to move again and go through the whole match process again there is still hope and there is still a very much needed assist with friends, and family in our lives. Heavenly Father will give you guidance if you listen with an open heart and contrite spirit as always. As someone born and raised in the church this has been very difficult to moderate and there is some social pressure to become more involved. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling. We also noticed a change in all of our parents and children alike moods. Be fruitful and multiply. The misogyny is deep in the Mormon church.